Looking for a 成语 which describes the blame game.

[BlackSpade 0]

比如，事情无论是跟我有关的，失败的时候我都会被怪的。

有没有哪个成语能代替的呢？

[Michaelyus 272]

To me, this sounds like the concept of a scapegoat in English, a semi-calque of which does exist in Chinese: 替罪羔羊 (or 替罪羊 although that doesn't have the rhythm).

 

Another more prosaic option is 待人受过.

 

 

The more florid 李代桃僵 is too positive for your purposes here.

 

 

[Publius 1,622]

Not exactly chengyu, but there are also the expressions 揹黑鍋 and 頂缸.