dangerous eating habits in China

[rezaf 188]

The more I learn about microorganism and immunology, the more I'm getting worried about following Chinese custumes while I am here. As you might have noticed Chinese people share food and if we consider the deseases that can be transmitted by saliva we will have many dangerous diseases. My wife is Chinese and I have to go to dinner with her family and colleagues all the time. Is there a way to explain this to them without offending them?

[anonymoose 1,605]

No. You will offend them. Just disinfect yourself with copious quantities of baijiu.

[889 1,798]

Just give them a set of 公筷. Gift-wrapped of course so they don't take offense.

http://www.hudong.com/wiki/%E5%85%AC%E7%AD%B7

[imron 5,291]

Think of it this way, by exposing yourself to small amounts of germs through their saliva, you'll be building up a gradual resistance for your own immune system ;)

[gato 919]

Just don't share saliva with strangers and you will be fine.

[Lu 3,226]

Don't think about that stuff too much. Your body can conquer most dangerous bacteria and such without a problem. Besides, you kiss your wife, I assume, without thinking about the dangers lurking in her saliva, and who knows who she has been having dinner with.

[889 1,798]

If you're the worrying sort, why not ask to look at the kitchen first, not the menu. Or visit a slaughterhouse.

As above, there really are some things in China -- and elsewhere -- that you shouldn't dwell on.

[rezaf 188]

Sharing food is too important for business and family in China. Even if I don't share food with strangers how would I know if someone from the family didn't get anything in a business dinner from a stranger. Some of these germs are very hard to remove from the body. Some will stay(even without any visible symptoms) for many years and cause problems like cancer and herpes. Alcohol(unless it's 70%~80%) and even boiling water of a shared hot pot can't really kill all the germs. For example Hepatitis B virus can live for 10 minutes in boiling water. Strange forms are viruses are emerging everyday that can't be killed by known medicine and thanks to antibiotics now we have bacteria that are resistant to everything. Vaccination is the best way I know but it's very limited.

BTW I'm not the worrying sort. My wife's little causin has been very sick for the last two months with a bacterial disease and there is simply no antibiotic that can kill the bacteria. These things don't happen a lot but when they happen they are very serious.

[kdavid 311]

As I tell all newcomers, there are hundreds of millions of people living like this, and I don't see any massive epidemics sweeping them all to the netherworld.

If it ain't killing them, it ain't gonna kill me. That goes for food, water, air, etc.

[adrianlondon 68]

If you go on the basis that the Chinese aren't all dropping dead in the street from sharing food, then it's likely not such a big problem. No doubt more hygenic to not share, but even in other countries you don't really know how clean the cutlery is that you're using.

Typically, in posh places, you use communal chopsticks (as mentioned above) for serving, or you swivel the ones you're using around so that one end is used to serve and the other is for eating. You could do that and see if yor wife's family comments.

[zozzen 14]

No worry. 3 out of top 6 highest life expectancy places share the dining tradition of saliva exchange. Your mother-in-law will tell you how it helps to grow antibody.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_life_expectancy#List_by_the_CIA_World_Factbook_.282009_estimates.29

[crazy-meiguoren 26]

Think of it this way, by exposing yourself to small amounts of germs through their saliva, you'll be building up a gradual resistance for your own immune system

I have not heard of anyone gaining resistance to foodborne illnesses. You'll just get sick again.

Would anyone want to take a bite off the same food item that was bitten on by someone with canker sores? Or hepatitis?

[zozzen 14]

No worry. 3 out of top 6 highest life expectancy places share the dining tradition of saliva exchange. Your mother-in-law will tell you how it helps to grow antibody.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_life_expectancy#List_by_the_CIA_World_Factbook_.282009_estimates.29

[889 1,798]

" . . . by exposing yourself to small amounts of germs through their saliva, you'll be building up a gradual resistance for your own immune system."

This is a disputed but nonetheless respectable theory called the "hygiene hypothesis."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hygiene_hypothesis

[rezaf 188]

It is true that being too concerned about hygene(for example overusing soaps and ...) is not good and reduces your body's natural amount of bacteria and in some ways decreases your bodies immune system's ability but sharing people's saliva is not really the right way of exposing yourself to germs when your have dangerous diseases like hepatitis. Viruses like HAV are very common in China and one of the most important reasons is sharing food.

[crazy-meiguoren 26]

Viruses like HAV are very common in China and one of the most important reasons is sharing food.

Diligently washing hands before eating will greatly reduce even that risk - especially when you understand the biggest source of Hep-A.

http://www.cdc.gov/hepatitis/A/index.htm

[rezaf 188]

It reduces the risk in countries that don't have a habit of sharing saliva everyday.

[crazy-meiguoren 26]

I don't see any massive epidemics sweeping them all to the netherworld.

It's not that people die soon after sharing food, unless they are sharing Kool-Aid, Jonestown style. My question is, what ailments can be traced to this tradition? What doesn't kill you doesn't necessarily make you stronger.

[zozzen 14]

Actually I think Chinese is tolerate of all "normal" requests of foreigners, because they take it for granted that Chinese is exceptional and different. So without thinking too much, rezaf shouldn't feel hesitated to ask for "public chopsticks".

[rezaf 188]

It's not like SARS kind of epidemic cuz no one eats dinner with a patient with that kind of disease but it doesn't mean there are no risks. The high numbers of HAV patients in comparison to other countries surely is a warning. As I said there are many diseases that can be transmitted through saliva and cause chronic conditions that might cause cancer or other problems many years later. Even if it's herpes(HSV is one of the most contagious viruses) on your lips or in your mouth it can be a pain in the ass for the rest of your life.