Popular Post Dawei3 Posted October 14, 2019 at 06:24 AM Popular Post Report Share Posted October 14, 2019 at 06:24 AM 2 nights in a row, I stopped for take-out from a restaurant near my hotel in 北京. Last night, I got back to my hotel and realized they had forgotten the most expensive part of my order. However, it was too late & too far to go back. A Chinese friend said “just tell them tomorrow. They will remember a foreigner didn’t get his dish.” I was skeptical. I also wondered if my language skills were sufficient to handle the situation. However, I hardly needed them. Today, I walked by the restaurant very fast on my way to the subway. A guy from the restaurant apparently saw me, chased after me, and told me they would give me my money back (I walk very fast, it’s amazing he caught up to me) He wasn’t even the one who made the mistake. I knew him from the previous night. They gave me my money back with much pride; Everyone smiled. Their food is good as well so I owe them a TripAdvisor review. In the USA, I would expect a restaurant to refund my money, but I can’t imagine them chasing me down the road to return my money. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vellocet Posted October 14, 2019 at 09:37 AM Report Share Posted October 14, 2019 at 09:37 AM The positive side of face. There's more honor to be had being publicly seen to return a foreigner's money than there is to keep it. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DavyJonesLocker Posted October 14, 2019 at 09:42 AM Report Share Posted October 14, 2019 at 09:42 AM I really like when the average man does little things like that. It shows a lot of integrity especially considering these guys are often just getting by in life and have to live on frighteningly poor money. Then my cheap ass landlord with 6 or 7 houses within the 3rd road of beijing buys a 2nd hand lowest possible price of a fridge that you wouldn't fit a bag of shopping into , despite paying 8000 a month rent!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vellocet Posted October 14, 2019 at 12:33 PM Report Share Posted October 14, 2019 at 12:33 PM See, there's the difference. The little people have nothing but honor to fall back on. The wealthy long ago disposed with such petty things and freely cheat. It can't get back to them, so they don't care. In fact, a great way to become wealthy in the first place is dishonesty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DavyJonesLocker Posted October 14, 2019 at 01:28 PM Report Share Posted October 14, 2019 at 01:28 PM 46 minutes ago, vellocet said: See, there's the difference. The little people have nothing but honor to fall back on. The wealthy long ago disposed with such petty things and freely cheat. It can't get back to them, so they don't care. In fact, a great way to become wealthy in the first place is dishonesty It's one of the main reasons I went to China. I worked for the big investment banking for 15 years or so. Always on the front line. It was a disgrace the way people behave , and yes a heck of a lot of people are racist , sexist, and seriously lacking in morals. The falseness was was appalling. , Only one reason, big bonus. I could fill the forum with stories. One day out of the blue just quit and went straight home, applied for my Chinese visa and never went back. At some point in ones life we all need to decide what kind of person we want to be in life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
重大雷雨 Posted October 14, 2019 at 07:37 PM Report Share Posted October 14, 2019 at 07:37 PM This story points to human nature in general. Some people have integrity, while some do not. I have known many poor people who are the most dishonest, immoral people in the world. I have known extremely wealthy people (including investment bankers) who hold themselves to almost unattainably high moral standards. There are wealthy people who cheat and there are poor people who cheat. There are honorable wealthy people and honorable poor people. Neither has wronged the other. The rich vs poor narrative is merely a tool wielded by dishonest politicians. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vellocet Posted October 14, 2019 at 08:45 PM Report Share Posted October 14, 2019 at 08:45 PM Way to punch down there, champ. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
重大雷雨 Posted October 14, 2019 at 09:52 PM Report Share Posted October 14, 2019 at 09:52 PM People don't like to be wrong and like even less to admit when they are wrong. Easier to justify your failures, bad luck and anti-social behaviour by blaming someone else. Even easier to convince other people they are victims. "Victims" then justify to themselves their cheating, lack of sympathy and degeneracy. People in general justify dishonest treatment of those they do not respect and those they think are from a different ideological, income, ethnic, geographic or cultural tribe. Human nature is an interesting thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawei3 Posted October 14, 2019 at 11:14 PM Author Report Share Posted October 14, 2019 at 11:14 PM I’ll add that their reaction also gave me more confidence in the quality of their food (in addition to that I could judge by looking at it and eating it). I thought if they are going to be so diligent about not ripping off a customer, they likely are ethical in business too and not buy crappy food. I also agree with the comment that there are both ethical and unethical rich and poor people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
道艺 Posted October 15, 2019 at 05:12 AM Report Share Posted October 15, 2019 at 05:12 AM I find the 饿了么 guys are really good about that if they make a mistake. I also had a similar experience with a taobao thing I bought. I forgot to update my adress after I moved districts (Shanghai). He called me to confirm, so I told him I'd go out there to pick it up. He said not to worry about it, that he'd come out to me to drop the package the next morning. Sure enough, it was there on time. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flickserve Posted October 16, 2019 at 12:21 PM Report Share Posted October 16, 2019 at 12:21 PM On 10/15/2019 at 5:52 AM, 重大雷雨 said: People don't like to be wrong and like even less to admit when they are wrong. Easier to justify your failures, bad luck and anti-social behaviour by blaming someone else. Even easier to convince other people they are victims. "Victims" then justify to themselves their cheating, lack of sympathy and degeneracy. this sounds very much like Hong Kong at the moment! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
重大雷雨 Posted October 17, 2019 at 07:44 AM Report Share Posted October 17, 2019 at 07:44 AM It is not he who has little who is poor, it is he who is ever chasing more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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