geek_frappa Posted March 23, 2004 at 03:18 AM Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 at 03:18 AM We are not machines' date=' we have feelings; even if that someone will take good care of you your whole life, not happy is not happy if you do not love the person. If you have to "think" and to reason whether or not that person is right for you, he/she is probably not the right person. I always believe in trusting your gut feelings.[/quote']I agree. But talking about love is like asking people 何不食肉糜. It is hard to come by. The second best is two good friends marrying (brotherly love is better than no love at all). But this is not easy either. But what does this have to do with cross-cultural dating?? OFF-TOPIC!! oh, that's right. which did we agree Shanghai or Hong Kong girls? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quest Posted March 23, 2004 at 03:26 AM Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 at 03:26 AM It is hard to come by. Yes indeed. The second best is two good friends marrying Sometimes that gut feeling only surfaces when the two become good friends, it does not have to be first sighted love. otherwise, no I do not think its a good idea to marry someone you only feel brotherly/sisterly love for. you will likely end up hating that person after a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geek_frappa Posted March 23, 2004 at 03:32 AM Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 at 03:32 AM It is hard to come by. Yes indeed. The second best is two good friends marrying Sometimes that gut feeling only surfaces when the two become good friends, it does not have to be first sighted love. otherwise, no I do not think its a good idea to marry someone you only feel brotherly/sisterly love for. you will likely end up hating that person after a while. yes. you don't want to fall in love with a girl that you feel is your sister. in fact that is the worst relationship, i think. i guess it is a good idea to fall in love with a person that excites you whenever you see her. or hear her voice. or smell her perfume. i dunno. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
39degN Posted March 23, 2004 at 04:06 AM Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 at 04:06 AM i mean if i come to beijing i also want to treat you to dim sum. which girl? got it! the younger one u posted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
39degN Posted March 23, 2004 at 04:15 AM Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 at 04:15 AM hehe, what on earth were you talking about? dating or marriage? or maybe sad marriage? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roddy Posted March 23, 2004 at 07:11 AM Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 at 07:11 AM I think I'll close this now and save myself the bother later. Roddy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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